PokerTracker

I would like to see how much I am losing when I bet the flop and get raised when I have no pair. So the amount I can lose should only include the amount I put in on top of my flop bet, but the amount I can win includes everything in the pot.

You can do that with a filter.
In the filters window tick Actions > Flop > Bet and Made Hands > High Card > On Flop.

Tutorial: Filters